Be humble enough to admit your vulnerabilities and weaknesses. Be wise enough to overcome them. ~ C.N. #BookOfChris

As the Year Ends, Celebrate Your Wins—No Matter How Small 👇🏽 Did you know that 90% of people focus more on what they didn’t achieve than what they did? As 2024 wraps up, it’s tempting to look at the calendar and think, “I didn’t do enough.” You might feel that the days left are too few to accomplish anything significant. But here’s a truth to hold onto: every step forward this year was progress. No matter how small or unremarkable it seems, your journey is worth celebrating. Think about it—how often do you pause to reflect on how far you’ve come? Maybe you didn’t achieve everything on your vision board, but you showed up. You grew, you persevered, and you’re still here. That alone is worth celebrating. Too often, we let the noise of others’ achievements drown out our own. But your journey is yours. It’s not meant to look like anyone else’s. This year, you may have taken a tiny step that set the foundation for something bigger. You may have faced setbacks but got back up. That’s strength. That’s growth. And that’s worth honoring. Why Celebrating Small Wins Matters Celebrating your wins—no matter how “insignificant” they feel—does more than lift your mood. It validates your effort, reminding you that every bit of effort counts. It builds resilience, fueling your confidence to face challenges ahead. It keeps you grounded, shifting your perspective from scarcity to gratitude. A Gentle Reminder for the Final Days of 2024 As the year closes, take time to celebrate: 1. The big moments: Maybe you landed a new job, started a business, or reached a major milestone. 2. The quiet victories: Did you rest more? Learn a new skill? Strengthen a relationship?. 3. The battles you fought: Perhaps this year was about survival—showing up when it was hard to keep going. That matters. Your path isn’t meant to be compared to someone else’s. What looks like a small step to others might have been a giant leap for you. Celebrate the fact that you are still moving forward. Remember: success is the sum of small efforts repeated day in and day out. As You Step Into 2025 Take the lessons and wins of this year with you. Use them as a reminder of your resilience and potential. Be grateful. Celebrate you. 👉🏽 Share one thing you’re proud of from 2024 in the comments. #BookOfChris #ChrisTips #ElileojoBlog #PersonalDevelopment #Gratitude #Reflection

You only stay sharp by listening to smart, competent or experienced people - applying lessons learnt from them, and failing repeatedly until you master success. ~ C.N. #BookOfChris #ChrisTips

For every hour spent learning, spend two hours applying. ~ C.N. #BookOfChris #ChrisTips

If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello. ~ C.N. #BookOfChris

The difference between those who succeed and those who don’t is not what they know, but how consistently they act on it. Choose one actionable step today and build momentum. ~ C.N. #ChrisTips #BookOfChris

Escape competition through authenticity. Play long-term games with long-term people. ~ C.N. #BookOfChris

😄 Are You Becoming Too Lazy in the Age of AI? 👇🏽 Did you know that 85% of tasks traditionally done by humans could now be automated with artificial intelligence? While this statistic represents a groundbreaking leap in technology, it also reveals a troubling trend: many people are becoming overly reliant on AI, neglecting creativity and mastery in their fields. Whether in the workplace or academia, people are increasingly asking AI to "think" for them, replacing effort with shortcuts. But here’s the truth: AI is not a replacement for your personal growth—it’s a tool to enhance it. The Problem Isn’t AI—It’s How You Use It Artificial intelligence is revolutionary. It can streamline tasks, improve efficiency, and unlock potential you never thought possible. However, it’s important to remember that mastery and creativity—the skills that set you apart—cannot be automated. When you rely on AI as a crutch rather than a tool, you risk stunting your growth. Asking ChatGPT to write an entire report without reviewing or refining it, relying on AI-generated ideas without injecting your perspective, or delegating all problem-solving to algorithms is not leveraging AI; it’s abusing it. To truly benefit from AI, you need to use it strategically. Here are some right ways to use AI: 💡As a research assistant, Let AI save you time by summarizing data, generating a variety of ideas, or providing insights from large amounts of data. But always cross-check and personalize the results. 💡For repetitive tasks: Automate mundane activities like scheduling, data entry, or formatting. This gives you time to focus on strategic, high-impact work. 💡To enhance—not replace—creativity: Use AI to brainstorm ideas or explore trends, but let your unique voice and perspective shape the final output. 💡For learning and skill-building: AI-powered tools like language translators or coding assistants can support your personal development journey. Mastery still requires effort, and creativity demands courage. AI should complement your abilities, not replace them. Abusing AI leads to: ❌Shallow knowledge: If you let AI do all the thinking, you lose the opportunity to deepen your understanding. ❌Lack of innovation: Creativity thrives on human curiosity. Over-dependence on AI can dull your ability to think outside the box. ❌ Erosion of trust: People value authenticity. You risk losing credibility if your work becomes generic or uninspired because you lean too much on AI. In conclusion, let AI empower you to be more productive, but never let it replace the time and effort required to become a master of your craft. Creativity and mastery are irreplaceable—invest in them. P.S. How do you use AI to stay creative and keep improving? #BookOfChris #ChrisTips #ElileojoBlog #PersonalDevelopment #AI #ContentWriting #ContentCreation #Creativity #ArtificialIntelligence

In most cases, especially in business, success is a by-product of your persistence even when you have every reason to give up. ~ C.N. #BookOfChris

It’s Okay to Be Assertive: Here's How To Tackle Toxicity at Work 👇🏽 Scenario: You’re in a virtual meeting, and a colleague dismisses your idea with a sarcastic remark, leaving you feeling humiliated. Over time, this behavior becomes a pattern—interruptions, blame-shifting, credit-stealing—slowly creating a toxic environment. Staying silent may seem easier in the moment, but silence only allows such behavior to persist and worsen. Assertiveness is the antidote. It’s not about being confrontational but about standing up for yourself with confidence and respect. Addressing toxic behavior early on helps protect your well-being and fosters a healthier workplace culture. Here 10 Moments Where Silence is Not an Option: 1. Frequent interruptions: Don’t let your voice be drowned out. Speak up politely but firmly. 2. Disrespectful tone or language: Address it calmly, such as, “I feel this tone isn’t productive for the discussion.” 3. Credit-stealing: Diplomatically reclaim ownership of your ideas. 4. Blame-shifting: Clarify facts and roles to avoid being unfairly targeted. 5. Passive-aggressive comments: Address the behavior directly and seek clarification. 6. Micromanagement: Push back on overreach respectfully by emphasizing your autonomy. 7. Ignoring boundaries: Reinforce your availability and work hours when interrupted outside them. 8. Gossip or exclusion: Either redirect the conversation or address the behavior constructively. 9. Bullying or harassment: Always confront or report inappropriate behavior to HR or leadership. 10. Unrealistic demands: Discuss priorities and the need for support to avoid burnout. Be the Colleague You’d Want to Work With The golden rule applies here: “Treat others as you want to be treated.” If someone tells you your behavior bothers them, listen, apologize sincerely, and make changes. We all have blind spots, and being open to feedback helps prevent unintentional harm. Here are 5 effective tactics to protect yourself and prevent bad behavior from spiraling out of control: - Set boundaries clearly and early. - Address issues calmly but directly (involve a decision-maker if you can). - Document incidents for accountability. - Seek support from HR, a major decision maker or trusted colleagues. - Prioritize your emotional well-being and always be polite. As Mahatma Gandhi said: “You may never know what results come of your actions, but if you do nothing, there will be no result.” Speak up for respect and fairness. Let’s foster healthy workplaces where professionalism thrives. P.S. Have you ever faced workplace toxicity? How did you handle it? Share your story below to inspire others. #ChrisTips #BookOfChris #ElileojoBlog #PersonalDevelopment #Career #Work #WorkplaceCulture #HealthyWorkPlace #HR #TalentManagement #OfficeLife